Like many other couples out there I was on birth control for many years (10+) for many different reasons. So when my husband and I got engaged and as our wedding day approached, we decided to stop birth control, and under the advice of my doctor, she said it would take a couple of months for my body and cycles to readjust. The first few months following me getting off the pill, my body seemed to respond very well, period came every 28 days like clock work, and I thought this wasn't so bad!! I thought that with using Ovulation Predictor Kits or (OPKS),we would catch the surge and we would have our baby in no time.
Well the fall of 2013 things changed, my periods were coming longer than usual and sometimes in the range of 30-35 days. Then December came, the undoing of it all! December 16th I was woken up in the middle of the night by cramps, which is usually how I know Aunt Flow(AF) has arrived, the first day an a half I had awful cramps which was usual, but for some reason this month it was really light, and lasted only 5 days. I wish I would have known that this was going to be the beginning of heartache and a longer journey to starting our family.
January came and went and no AF, February came with the same result, and March had the same fate. During these three months of this new year, my husband insisted I was pregnant and that I was one of those women that didn't get a positive when peeing on a stick. So I went for blood work and nothing. Then the middle of March I went to my OBGYN to find out what was going on... a ton of blood work and a week later I got news that would change my life forever.
I was diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), and was told to come in next week to talk about treatments and options. That week of waiting was the longest of my life. I was given a whole pharmacy of medicines to take, I asked how long it would take us to get pregnant and she basically told me don't expect to get pregnant for the next 6 months to a year. I asked for an internal ultrasound and she denied it saying "I didn't need it, and it wouldn't show anything." I cried in the office thinking this was it. Why ME? Why us? I had beat HPV, CIN I and CIN II, two colposcopies, and one LEEP! Why is God doing this to us? I thought I had been through so much that this would be easy.
I am now taking progesterone or provera which screws up my emotions and hormones six ways from sunday, waiting for a period to hopefully come. Once it does come the two fertility clinics I am working with will give me my ultrasound, tube flush, and more blood work. I just want the pills to do what they are suppose to do because I feel down right awful. I cry at a drop of a hat, I'm always tired, I am bloated, and feel like general crap. Today I am meeting with an Reproductive Endocrinologist(RE) to hopefully get a better game plan started.
My husband doesn't understand why I feel so awful or for that much really care, the only thing he wants is SEX!!! Let me tell you, with these pills, sex is the last thing on my mind, just the thought of it right now makes me cringe. Which everyone says is normal and that when my period comes I will feel much better. I really hope so because I can't go on feeling this way anymore. I am generally not this sad, blah emotional wreck. I am much more level headed and can handle my emotions.
Today will be the beginning of God knows what, not getting my hopes up, but will cautiously hold out hope that this doctor will be amazing!
Very well written Thelma! Its not going to be easy, but it WILL be worth it. You will see! Just keep swimming, just keep swimming....
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